Tuesday, March 18, 2008

 

Lighting At Your Wedding

The facility that you are having your wedding at is beautiful. The thing is - once it gets dark, it takes on a whole other look. It's kind of dark and not really romantic. White holiday lights on the fake fichus trees just don't cut it. What can you do? Candle light is great, but it only goes so far in setting the mode.

Dance floor lighting is one way to bring a new feel to a facility, but if you're not into making your wedding look like a night club, then maybe a more theatrical feel to the lighting is in order. How about some simple color changers or slowly rotating white lights? What about a custom gobo that creates an evening sky on the ceiling? All these things are possible.

A lighting scheme is a great way to liven up the venue. With 6 or 10 color changers, we can slowly transition from one color to another or set different tones for specific events at your wedding. When it's time for dinner, a soft blue shade can illuminate the walls and columns. When it's time for cake cutting, the room all of a sudden becomes pink. When it's dancing time, the lights start flickering and a deep purple fills the room. This is possible through the magic of LED driven lighting effects. Ask us, your lighting professional to learn more about how we can bring your event to light.

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Note: This is the same event & venue lit three different ways using our LED wash lights
 

You’ve got your band, now it’s time to get your DJ.

I’m not talking about a 5 piece band. It’s your engagement ring. Saying “I Will” opens a Pandora of other issues. When do you get married. In a church or outside on a beach? Will your reception be at a big hotel or small bed & breakfast? No matter what the answers above are, you still need to find entertainment for your wedding reception. More than 9 out of 10 weddings now include a disc jockey v. band (This was exactly opposite back 10 years ago when bands performed at the majority of weddings). Exactly how do you go about choosing one DJ v. another? How can you weed out the “weekend wanna-be’s” from the true professional disc jockeys? The success or failure of your reception lies in that decision.

There are some key items that you need to know when interviewing your disc jockey. In the interview process, you should be able to meet your DJ (not a salesperson) so that you can make sure that the three of you mesh. Here is a list of items that you need to ask your DJ:

  1. Do they have complete backup gear on-hand (it does no good back at the office if something goes wrong at your wedding)? Do they have qualified backup DJs available in case of sickness or other reason? There have been too many occasions where a DJ cancels on a wedding client only days or weeks before their wedding date – No backup. You do not want to be days away from your big day and not have any entertainment.
  2. Do they have a written agreement or contract? If it’s not in writing – it doesn’t count. Make sure their contract protects you and your rights as well as theirs.
  3. What form of music do they use? Vinyl? CD? MP3? If they are using CDs – make sure they are professional anti-skip cd players. This will guarantee that your music will not be interrupted. If they are using MP3’s, make sure they have a backup computer or CD backups. We all know too well that computers can crash. The middle of your first dance is no time to be waiting for a reboot.
  4. How up-to-date is their music? Professional disc jockeys belong to DJ subscription services (monthly or weekly releases) – they do not download their music for free off of the internet and they do not rely on buying a couple CDs at the local music store to stay in tune with what is coming out. Ask to see their latest cd’s and verify the release date.
  5. Do they have voice mail, a toll free number, website. email and fax number? Do they respond to your calls and emails in a timely fashion. There is nothing worse than doing business with someone that doesn’t return your calls promptly. A professional business person should be responding to you either the same day or at worst, within 24 hours. If you have a question or concern, you cannot wait for days without response.
  6. Have they performed at the facility you are having your reception at? Although this is not necessary, the more familiar they are with the layout/staff, the better. If they have not played there before, will they meet you at the facility ahead of your wedding date to do a walk through with you?
  7. How much do they have invested in equipment (not music – just equipment)? They can have $1,000 invested in equipment and say that they are a DJ. A true professional will have $7,000 - $15,000 or more invested in just the equipment that they bring into your event. What is the difference? It’s kind of comparing the sound quality of listening to a typical FM radio station and the same song on CD. The CD has so much more depth and clarity compared to the muddy compressed feel of a radio station. You could ask about the brand of equipment that they own (Brands such as American Audio, American DJ, Gemini, Peavey are typical entry level brands and are an indication that your potential DJ’s equipment is not up to par)
  8. How many speakers do they typically use? For the standard 125 person wedding, a true professional DJ will bring in 3 or 4 speakers minimum. There should be a subwoofer or pair of speakers on the ground for bass response. The second pair should be up on stands to provide clarity in the high end frequencies (anything spoken on microphone). Bringing in a single pair of speakers and leaving them on the ground gives you a very muffled sound and guests will not hear announcements, toasts clearly. Using just a pair on stands will get you clarity, but will sound hollow and the DJ will have to raise his volume to compensate for the lack of equipment.
  9. Do you have any special needs? Outdoor cocktail hour? Wedding ceremony in the same facility as your reception? Make sure your disc jockey is equipped to handle your needs.
  10. Probably the best advise I can give you is this – if you are uncomfortable with any of your DJ’s answers or if you just don’t hit it off with them – walk away. You have to be absolutely confident with your entertainment choice. There is no redo button. Everything must be perfect. Your DJ will not only act as DJ, but your Master of Ceremonies. That means that they are the contact person between banquet staff, the two of you, your photographer, etc. The DJ must coordinate everything. If not – who will? 99% of banquet facilities will tell you that they will coordinate details on the day of your wedding, but reality is – they do not. Once the desert is served, you’ll be hard pressed to even find them.

Remember, if the DJ and their price seems too good to be true –it probably is. Why would a great DJ charge ½ of what the going rate is? Let’s be serious. We all know that you get what you pay for. Have a great wedding – but remember that your entertainment choice will either make your reception a success or a flop. I’ve never known an ice sculpture, picture frame favors or pretty centerpieces make your guests have a great time. It’s all about the entertainment.

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Your Wedding Day Timeline

You've decided on a wedding day. You've picked out the church. You've got your photographer. What time should the ceremony be? When should the reception start? How much time do you need for photos? Planning your wedding day time-line can be difficult. Let's break it down and see how much time you should plan for each section of your wedding day.

Your Ceremony - typically you can expect a Justice of the Peace civil ceremony to last 30 minutes maximum. If you are planning a full mass service - you should plan a full hour to the ceremony. If you are doing a receiving line after the ceremony - plan on about 20 minutes for every 100 guests. (If you have 200 guests, your receiving line will take 40 minutes!). If it's hot out, you do not want to keep your guests in the heat - let them get to the air conditioned reception site. Exposing your guests to extreme heat for prolonged periods of time drains their energy - and they will not be as responsive later on for dancing.

The photographs - if you are not doing photographs prior to the ceremony, you need to dedicate time to get a good formal photograph session. Typically you should plan 30 - 45 minutes for formal photos. (this does not include travel time to and from photo session location) The more family and bridal party, the longer photos will take.

Travel - obviously it takes time for your guests and the bridal party to get from point A to point B. Take into consideration any special traffic situations on your wedding day (is it near a major concert, sporting event, etc? If so, traffic may be an issue and you should either plan on circumventing this area in your travels or plan on travel taking longer than normal)

The Reception - most people start their reception with an hour social hour. If you expect to be long taking photos, you might want to extend the cocktail time to an hour and a half. Typically, at the end of cocktail hour, we do formal introductions and first dance, blessing and toast. If you are having social hour in a separate room, plan on 10 minutes to 15 minutes transition time for your guests. It will take about 30 minutes to organize introductions, introduce everyone, first dance, bridal party dance and blessing/toast. If you are having more than 1 toast, ensure that each person knows that their toast should be brief (2-5 minutes). If someone gets up and does a 20 minute toast - that is 20 minutes that you will not have later on in your reception for dancing. Time is of utmost concern at a wedding - make sure you curtail both blessing and toast to an appropriate timeframe. We've seen clergy give 20 minute blessings and best men eat up 30-40 minutes for their toast.

Dinner - from start to finish, your meal service should be between 45 minutes and 75 minutes maximum. There are many facilities that drag out or are slow on meal service. If so, you should consider dancing between courses to allow for maximum dancing time and to mask the slow meal service from your guests.

Dancing - at a typical 5 hour reception - you should expect 2 - 2 1/2 hours of dancing. Everything that takes longer above, eats into this dancing time. If your concern is to have all your guests up and dancing, then you need to keep everything else in check to allow for this.

In Summary:
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Ceremony - 30 - 60 minutes
Receiving Line - 0 - 60 minutes
Travel Time (between ceremony and reception site) - 0 - 45 minutes
Cocktails - 60 - 90 minutes
Introductions/Formal Dances - 30 minutes
Meal Service - 45 - 75 minutes
Dancing - ?
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Downloadable 16-Month Wedding Planning Calendar

from www.RealSimple.com

Click Here

When it comes to planning the big day, there are a lot of moving parts. You’ve got caterers to consider, photographers to meet, bands to listen to, cakes to taste and well, about a thousand other details to manage.

The key to keeping track (and keeping your sanity) is good old organization and that’s where this downloadable checklist comes in. It contains every detail you could think of (and about a hundred that you didn’t!) like when to send save-the-date cards, book port-a-potties if necessary, and break in those satin pumps so you’re not limping down the aisle on D-day.

For a comprehensive guide to what needs to be done (and when), download the calendar by clicking on the link above.

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One Thousand Origami Paper Cranes

A thousand paper cranes is traditionally given as a wedding gift by the folder, who is wishing a thousand years of happiness and prosperity upon the couple. When Emilie and Kyle entered their cocktail hour on February 29, 2008, the entire area was covered with origami paper cranes.

The Thousand Origami Cranes has become a symbol of world peace through the story of Sadako Sasaki, a Japanese girl who contracted leukemia as a result of radiation from the atomic bombing of Hiroshima during World War II. Her story is told in the the book Sadako and the Thousand Paper Cranes.

Sadako's best friend Chizuko, came to visit her and brought with her some origami (folding paper). She told Sadako the legend of the crane. It is Japanese legend that folding 1000 paper cranes (senzaburu) so pleases the gods that the folder is granted a wish. It has become a symbol of world peace. We wish Emilie and Kyle a thousand years of happiness.

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Career Vs Family - How Do You Maintain Balance?

By Kelly Damron
The expectations of women have changed drastically over the past 100 years, but for many women being a mother is just as important today as it was a century ago. I remember having a conversation with my grandmother when I was in my twenties. We were sitting in her living room; me on her white, green, and blue flowered couch and she in her green antique chair. She was probing me about what my career choice was going to be; she wanted me to pursue a business career, as she had done. My grandmother had been a successful businesswoman who did not have her first child until she was 35 (something unheard of in the 1940s) and who continued to work full-time thereafter.

She asked me if I wanted to have children. I described a perfect blend of career and motherhood where I would work part-time and dedicate the rest of my time to raising my children. To my surprise she lectured me about what a poor mother I would be if I chose to work. Looking back at this conversation, I cannot help but wonder if her attitude toward me was a reflection of her own life and her regrets for choosing career over motherhood. Her son, my biological father, was not a good dad so I think her disappointment toward me that day was really the remorse she felt about her choices in balancing work and family and the effect it had on her son.

In the end, I pursued my career first. Out of college I joined one of the large public accounting firms. At 28, I married and was less focused on creating a family than I was about climbing the career ladder. After three years of marriage, my professional drive was replaced by my desire to become a mother, and my husband, Dave, and I embarked on the journey of trying to become pregnant.

As months passed, we were unable to create the baby we so desperately wanted. The sadness I felt became all-consuming. I lost all interest in career-based projects and topics. I started to lose my identity. I wasn't a mother, but I did not yet have a prestigious career title either. Infertile. This was not a title I wanted. I had no idea how this diagnosis would impact me or my marriage. At times, it seemed like my full-time job was test after test and procedure after procedure. I truly cannot imagine how a woman can undergo infertility treatments and maintain a full-time job. If I could have made a living researching the topic of infertility, I would have taken the position since I was already doing so for free!

I was surprised to find that my interest in my career waned the longer my husband and I struggled to create a family. At the same time, I was concerned that once I became a mother I would be too focused on my career and become the poor mother my grandmother predicted. A friend of mine, who is a business coach, used his skills to help me gain comfort that I would make the best decision for me and my hoped-for children.

Thanks to in vitro fertilization, my husband and I did become pregnant with twins. Our joy of pending parenthood was tested when I was hospitalized for preterm labor at only 24 weeks, gestation. At the request of my Ob/Gyn I had been winding down my work related projects in preparation for possible bed rest toward the end of my pregnancy, but 24 weeks was too soon. The fright of preterm labor was the start of my mindset change about career vs. motherhood. When my daughters were born at only 30 weeks' gestation, my life was put on hold and all I cared about was the health and survival of my children.

To manage the stress of twins at home, I hired a nanny to help me twenty hours per week. I felt guilty paying money to have someone help me when I wasn't working to cover their salary, so when my daughters were less than six months old I accepted a project to help offset the nanny expenses. I liked the mental stimulation and it was nice to be needed for something other than producing food. However, I was very tired and not truly ready to go back to work.

My daughters are now three years old. I've made a conscious decision to work less than full-time so that I can take an active part in raising my kids. Many of my friends are stay-at-home moms while others have chosen to or must work. The balance of career and family can be a delicate one. I for one know that I am a better mom when I am with my girls because I also continue to experience the challenges and growth that can only be found in the business environment. Each woman should strive to find the balance that is right for her.


Kelly Damron is the mother of twin girls conceived via IVF. She lives in Phoenix, AZ with her husband, Dave, and their daughters. She is an active volunteer with the March of Dimes and RESOLVE: The National Infertility Association. Her book Tiny Toes: A Couple's Journey Through Infertility, Prematurity, and Depression is available at http://www.TinyToesBook.com or http://www.Amazon.com

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